“Is it better to speak

or die?”



Call Me By Your Name, Andre Aciman, Frenesy Film Cmpany SRL, La Cinefacture SARL,

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Is it better to speak or to die?

A safe space to share and explore our thoughts, feelings and dreams enabling us to make positive changes that empower and support a life truly worth living and loving. Our work is based on principles from Call Me By Your Name.

“Silence and solitude exact a cost that leaves us emotionally wrecked.

At some point we need to speak.” - André Aciman

Our next meeting in Manhattan will focus on our personal experiences related to the movie and book. RSVP is required. Our monthly meetings are only open to residents of the New York tri state area however all are invited to our post meeting dinners. Please the email link below to be added to our private email list.  Make sure to read our “About” page.